7 December 2010

As a NLP Master Coach, Healer and Intuitive Medium I help people overcome their personal barriers and limitations.  Every day I help people to open their minds and seek resolutions to their challenges, build their confidence and see possibilities and prove life after death!

In my life I have faced many challenges and it feels to me like I have already lived many lives just within this one. I was poor, homeless, abused, worked hard but had also lavished life and partied with the rich.  There is always more to do, more challenges, more to achieve and more fun to have!

We all like to stick to the way life is;  we are programmed  by nature to fight change as change is uncertainty  and it can mean death and most of us are scared of dying as we see this as the end.  I have been very fortunate to have a clinic death at the age of 2 so I know that dying is just a change of state and it feels very freeing. I am very fortunate also to be a medium and be able to “speak to the dead” so dying doesn’t really bother me.  However I do have my own fears and face daily challenges like anyone else.

We are all boxed in our environment, controlled by our habits by what society tells us is right or wrong or how we should behave.  Very often are behaviours run into an “auto pilot” so we do not even realise what we do and why. Most of us are not conscious and do not to seek to understand our own nature.  As I my passion is to inspire change in others and to celebrate life & death I want to set example to everyone and prove that if I can overcome or if any human can overcome their own limitations everyone else can too!

I never liked rollercoaster rides or sudden falls!  Even when I went to the Thorpe park with my family I stayed in the car (how boring!)  as I just didn’t want to go on any rides!  Although plane flights are fine - to do a sky jump is not something I ever wanted to do!  Trust me – that was something that I would just say was for crazy people!   Because really why would anyone endanger their own life for purpose of a few minutes of adrenalin frill?  Stupid isn’t it???

Well, stupid or not - that was my way of thinking then and my big fear!  Well, we have to feel the fear and do it anyway!    Life changes all the time we cannot stay still, the time is moving, the earth is moving and the galaxy is changing all the time. The only way to feel happy and to embrace change and live life to the full is to go with it and welcome the challenges and break through fears.   See the challenges as opportunities and personal tests and lessons.  Think of it as a game - a life game and make it fun. Make life what you want it to be and don’t listen to limiting beliefs of others of what’s possible or not. If you really want to do something go for it!

Today I have embraced on my biggest fear!  Sky Jumping from 14,000 ft.!!!!!!! Wow!  that was one of the most frightening things I have ever done in my life!   When I boarded the plane I didn’t really think too much I guess my mind wasn’t really registering the fear!  I was really blank!  Once the plane starting rising up and I felt the wind and the first person jumped out – suddenly I really felt – wow oh my gosh – “what am I doing”!  I am honest with you - I was really scared but I knew there was no turning back – I had to do it!   I just thought – oh well if they can do it I can do it too! Right?  Trust me- this is not easy when you look down on the earth far far far away under you!   I sent love to all my family and friends and asked my guides to look after me and just jumped off!

Wooooooooooow!!!!!!!!!!!! Words cannot really describe the feeling of falling. I know I felt the pressure of the wind, the fall – was a bit cold and I couldn’t really move much.  I saw how incredible the earth is and how it must be wonderful for the birds to be able to fly.  When you fall – you don’t really feel like you’re falling – the 60 seconds or so of the fall do however last a long time!  - as the time really slows down.  My body was in a shock and it took me a while to get back to reality. The only inconvenience was the pain in my ears as I struggled to equalise the pressure.

When the parachute opened everything slowed down even more and I have enjoyed the magnificent views over the vast land and the beautiful ocean.  It was marvellous – the best ever experience in my life!!!!!  I was scared initially but I loved it and I am so happy that I have done it and I know that if I can do that – I CAN DO ANYTHING!    I am so happy and so grateful!

So I wish you all to break through your own fears!  Embrace your fears and welcome them to give you courage to go through life with passion and excitement.  Life is to be enjoyed so have fun and live to the full!  

If  you ever have any challenges and require help to break through your fears – CALL ME AS I AM THE RIGHT  and THE  BEST  PERSON TO HELP YOU !