Everyone wants to feel good about themselves. As the saying goes, “you only live once,” and it would be ideal if everyone had enough confidence to go out and try to get what they wanted, since with each passing moment, time is slipping away.
But not everyone has that type of confidence. Many people have such low self confidence that they may often find themselves feeling anxious or frightened at the mere idea of performing certain activities, while others feel so low about themselves that they assume they will fail and rarely make any effort before accepting the “inevitable.”
What causes these levels of self confidence can differ dramatically. Low self confidence can be caused by any number of:

• Bad experiences after displaying confidence.
• Mental or physical abuse that creates a lower self image.
• The belief that negative events reflect poorly on your character

Whatever the cause of low self confidence, there is no denying that it can drastically impact your life. That is why when you are feeling little ambition or drive to make yourself more active and show who you are as a person, you need to seek help, either by surrounding yourself with more positive people, or looking towards NLP/Hypnosis in order to have someone find the root of your self confidence issues so that you can take measures to stop it.

6 December 2009